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ہم پاکستانی کتنے گندے لوگ ہیں


382563_10200857470011457_1989208545_n-4مجھے نہیں پتا تھا کہ ہم پاکستانی کتنے گندے لوگ ہیں. جب دوسری دنیا کے لوگوں کو دیکھا تو پتا چلا کہ ہم اچھے لوگ نہیں. یہ بات نہیں کہ ہم جبلتی طور پر گندے لوگ ہیں. ہمیں گندے بننے کی تربیت دی جاتی ہے

اچھی دنیا کے اچھے لوگ دوسروں کو مذہب کی بنیاد پر کمتر نہیں سمجھتے. ہم تو مار ہی دیتے ہیں. مگر آج میں مذہب کی بات نہیں کروں گی

کل کچھ بھا یوں اور ایک باپ نے لاہور ہائی کورٹ سے باھر پتھر مار مار کر اپنی بیٹی کو مار دیا کیوں کہ اس کو کسی سے پیار ہو گیا اور اس نے شادی کر لی بھاگ کر

اب اندازہ کریں کہ کس قدر گندے لوگ ہیں. میں نے تو شادی سے پہلے ڈ ر کے مارے کسی سے پیار نہیں کیا اور نہ ہی کسی کمینے نے میرے ساتھ پیار کیا. مگر میری ایک کلاس فیلو ہائی اسکول میں کسی لڑکے سے بات کرتی پکڑی گئی اور اس کو بھی مار دیا تھا اس کے بھائی نے
اندازہ کریں کس قدر گندے لوگ ہیں. اس وقت تو میں یہ سمجھتی تھی کہ یہ ہی سزا ہوتی ہے ایسے کاموں کی. یہاں امریکا میں رہنے کے بعد بہت ساری باتوں کی سمجھ آئ . لڑکون اور لڑکیوں کا اپس میں تعلقات قائم کرنا اصل میں نیچر کے این مطابق ہے. یہ نارمل بات ہے. لڑکے اور لڑکیوں کو ایک دوسرے سے دور رکھنا نیچر کے خلاف ہے

معاشرے کو جوان لوگوں کو یہ سکھانا چاہیے کہ صحت مند تعلقات کیسےبناتے ہیں. ایک دوسرے کی عزت کیسے کرتے ہیں. ایک دوسرے کے وقار کا کیسے خیال رکھتے ہیں. اور اگر تعلق بوجھ بن جاے تو چھوڑ کے آگے کیسے بڑھ جانا چاہیے. جوانوں کو ایک دوسرے سے دور رکھنا اور ملنے پر جان سے مار دینا عقل کی بات نہیں
لڑکیاں بھی لڑکوں کی ترھا ہی ہوتی ہیں ہر لیحاز سے

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/05/27/pakistani-woman-stoned_n_5396665.html

موقع ملنے پر اورچھپ چھپا کر تو سب عورتیں اور مرد وہی کرتے ہیں جو ان کی نیچر ان سے تقاضا کرے، مگر جب کوئی پکڑا جاتا ہے، تو کچھ جاہل لوگ اس کو جان سے مار دیتے ہیں

بنیادی وجہ اس کی یہ ہے کہ پاکستانی اور مسلمنان مرد اپنی عورت کے جسم کو اپنی ملکیت سمجھتا ہے. باپ اپنی مرضی کے بندے سے سیکس کی اجازت دیتا ہے مولوی کی موجودگی میں، اور پھر ٹھیک ہے. مگر عورت کو ایک خود مختار انسان نہیں سمجھا جاتا جس کو اپنے جسم پر پورا اختیار ہو کہ اس کو جیسے چاہے استعمال کرے

میں نے مہذب قوموں سے سیکھا ہے کہ ایک جوان آدمی اور عورت کو اپنے جسم پر پورا اختیار ہے، جو مرضی کریں ، کوئی کنٹرول نہیں کرتا. یہاں لڑکیاں دس دس دوست بنا لیتی ہیں اورما ں باپ پھر بھی صرف مشورہ دے سکتے ہیں، مگر اور کسی ترہا تنگ نہیں کر سکتے. خدا کا شکر ہے کہ میں اپنی بیٹی یہاں امریکا میں بڑی کر رہی ہوں. باپ یا کوئی اور رشتے دار، عزت کے نام پر ہاتھ بھی نہیں لگا سکتا میری بیٹی کو. بچے کی زندگی کے آگے عزت جیسی بکواس کی کیا حیثیت ہے. اگر جوان بچی سیکس کر لے تو صرف جاہل اور گندے لوگ ہی اس کو جان سے مارتے ہیں. مہذب لوگ جانتے ہیں کہ جوان لوگ اپنے جسم اور مال کے ذمہ دار خود ہیں. کسی کی شرم گاہ میرا معاملہ نہیں اور میری کسی اور کا نہیں

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Shazia Nawaz

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  • You know what lady you are sick ….I feel sorry for your poor girl whom you are going to allow to have sex with multiple partners . Your face reflect ur ugly and dirty thoughts.

    • She has expressed her views. If you have different views you have every right to express them. But dear Madam you have no right to use insulting words for a highly educated lady whose ideas happen to differ from yours. Muslims can never develop as long as they do not learn to disagree and to resolve issues through debate and not by slaughtering or using filthy language for others.

      • So called highly educated born in villages , brought up in deprivation and now vomiting their frustration on world. I know this sick lady better than you as she was my mate in college . She used to beg rich guys to sleep with her. But due to HER Appearance no body lowered their standards. I just want her to keep her personal filthy views to her and don’t dare to insult the institute of marriage . My religion is complete and I don’t need sick people like her to debate on my perfect religion . Cz she doesn’t know any thing about it . She promotes Hinduism I ask her to spend one night in remote india . Losers !

      • I am this writer’s class mate too. She was too ugly and no one fucked her but Harry had a nice ass and all rich guys went in and out of it as they pleased. This is how Harry was able to afford his education but still dropped out of college later. Mrs. Mir was also much prettier than shazia and all rich guy enjoyed Mrs. Mir’s nice pussy a lot. Mrs. Mir didn’t even have to beg. Ha ha ha ha. Good old days.

      • So called highly educated born in villages , brought up in deprivation and now vomiting their frustration on world. I know this sick lady better than you as she was my mate in college . She used to beg rich guys to sleep with her. But due to HER Appearance no body lowered their standards. I just want her to keep her personal filthy views to her and don’t dare to insult the institute of marriage . My religion is complete and I don’t need sick people like her to debate on my perfect religion . Cz she doesn’t know any thing about it . She promotes Hinduism I ask her to spend one night in remote india . Losers !

      • I am this writer’s class mate too. She was too ugly and no one fucked her but Harry had a nice ass and all rich guys went in and out of it as they pleased. This is how Harry was able to afford his education but still dropped out of college later. Mrs. Mir was also much prettier than shazia and all rich guy enjoyed Mrs. Mir’s nice pussy a lot. Mrs. Mir didn’t even have to beg. Ha ha ha ha. Good old days.

  • Your views are at one extreme promoting sex without limits and the people who stoned their daughter for marrying without their consent are on the other extreme. Both are wrong. A woman should be free to marry whom ever they want to marry, with mutual consent. This is best for the woman and gives them social and financial protection even in Western Societies. This is best for the man who gets committed to raise a family with that woman. And Marriage is not just about sex. It is also about taking care of each other and the children and giving them a stable home.

  • Khan, you are correct in most of your statement. And, you respond appropriately,
    I, myself, wouldn’t say Shazia is “wrong” but, I think it was a valid response on your part, of respectful view.
    But the venom spewed on Shazia above is outrageous and untrue.
    The Muslim Takfiri trolls above that indulge in character assassination of Shazia, don’t even know her, and are illustrating the intolerance of free thought and common differences in the interpretation of Islamic principles.
    Mrs Mir doesn’t even know Shazia, clearly lied about knowing you and your dating habits. As she didn’t even date when in school.
    They disrespect women and their responses only serve to prove their sexual frustration and misogyny. Pakistan is number one in searching for “sex” on the Internet.
    “Pakistan has managed to secure the number one slot for searching the term ‘sex’ globally for all years.”
    In Pakistan sex is hidden away causing sexual frustration in some men, and is women are oppressed.
    Sadly, I believe it is from the cultures that deny natural intimate yearnings, and are misogynistic – whereas in the free countries there are reasonable expectations within reasonable lawful restrictions.

    http://wikiislam.net/wiki/Muslim_Statistics_(Pornography)

    • Two girls were gang raped in India today ….check guardian
      Two Indian sisters ‘gang-raped’, killed and hanged from a tree
      theguardian.com, Thursday 29 May 2014 12.22 BST
      My objection is that cruel people are every where in society they are more free in DC developing countries cz of weak law and order ….So she can’t blame any country for that . She promotes india where rape in committed every 22nd minute. There are sick people in every society . So being pakistani I feel sick when I read her article.

  • Guys Please, do not lower your standard like people in my city Lahore. I am much shame to read and listen this killing story. If you talk dirty about any person that you don’t know, that is mean this is what the writer is trying proof. I am feel guilty by associating myself as Pakistani by reading some of the posts about the writer of this article. If you don’t know personally, please do not call anyone SLUT. If you call someone as bad name, your are equally guilty of doing same thing. Leave the writer alone, she is expressing her opinion, and tell me what did she say wrong? Aren’t we the part of bad society who judge and issue a punishment!!! No tolerance at all. This is not the Islam, this is only Saudi and Talibani Islam.

    • I know her personally from pakistani village kot adoo where she was born …… Go there and ask about her family there u will know your self that what kind of business her mum runs .

  • I am this writer’s class mate too. She was too ugly and no one fucked her but Harry had a nice ass and all rich guys went in and out of it as they pleased. This is how Harry was able to afford his education but still dropped out latter. Mrs. Mir was also much prettier than shazia and all rich guy enjoyed Mrs. Mir’s nice pussy a lot. Mrs. Mir didn’t even have to beg. Ha ha ha ha. Good old days.

  • UN High Commissioner for Human Rights Navi Pillay on Wednesday strongly deplored the cold blooded murder of Farzana Iqbal, a 25 year old pregnant woman, who was stoned to death by her family in front of the Lahore High Court on Tuesday.
    In a statement released on Wednesday, Pillay said that it was government’s neglect that led to her death.
    “I am deeply shocked by the death of Farzana Iqbal, who, as in the case of so many other women in Pakistan, was brutally murdered by members of her own family simply because she married a man of her own choice,” stated Pillay. While deploring the way the woman was murdered she said, “I do not even wish to use the phrase ‘honour killing’: there is not the faintest vestige of honour in killing a woman in this way.”
    Farzana of Chak 167, Jaranwala, was going to testify that she intentionally married her husband and that her family had wrongly accused her husband of kidnapping her.
    While she was waiting outside LHC, near a mosque, members of her family opened fire, which narrowly she escaped. However, following which, her father, brother and dozen other men started pelting her with stones and bricks, as revealed by SP Civil Lines SP Umar Riaz Cheema.
    A dozen security officials were present at the LHC at the time of the incident.
    Pillay said that hundreds of women are killed in Pakistan as retribution for marrying the man of their choice, or denying arranged marriage.
    According to Human Rights Commission of Pakistan around 869 women were ‘honour killed’ last year in Pakistan. However accurate figure could me much higher as many deaths are not reported at all.
    The High Commissioner exhorted that, “The government must take urgent and strong measures to put an end to the continuous stream of so-called ‘honour killings’ and other forms of violence against women”
    While emphasising that, “the government must make measures to protect women like Farzana Iqbal,” she said that it was the neglect of the government in saving a women, who was murdered, while she was on her way to court. “The fact that she was killed on her way to court, shows a serious failure by the State to provide security for someone who – given how common such killings are in Pakistan – was obviously at risk.”
    Pillay also criticised the Diyat and Qisas laws of the country, “People who carry out ‘honour crimes’ are rarely prosecuted, and even when they are, they often receive absurdly light sentences, considering they have committed pre-meditated murder.”
    “Such provisions are particularly pernicious when members of the same family that conducted the killing are given the right to pardon the killers.”
    The committee on the elimination of Discrimination against women (CEDAW) that reviewed the Pakistan’s record on women rights previous year, articulated that despite amended criminal law act of 2004 that punishes offenses in the name of honour killing, two ordinances Qisas and Diyat continue to be used to pardon the perpetrators by the members of the same family who carry out the disgraced act.
    The UN Committee called on Pakistan to attend to the limitations of the criminal law and abolish all requirements under which the perpetrators of Honour killing are are allowed to escape the penalty.
    The UN general assembly had previously urged the member states through three separate resolutions 2001, 2003 and 2005 to increase governmental, educational, social efforts to prevent “honour killings”. It had also pushed for prompt investigations and immediate prosecutions of the perpetrators.http://tribune.com.pk/story/714694/un-urges-pakistan-to-take-action-against-honour-killers-of-farzana/

  • ہم پاکستانی اتنے گندے لوگ ہیں کہ ہمیں اچھا لکھنا نہیں آتا۔

    خاتون، آپ کے مضمون کا ہر جملہ املا کی غلطیوں سے بھرا ہوا ہے۔ آپ کے خیالات بہت اچھے ہیں مگر لکھاءی بہت گندی۔

  • …Kawwa chala hans ki chaal apni bhi bhool gaya…samajh nahi aata lbp walay iss tarha ka material kaisay shamil kar laitay hain shayad in ki bhi yahi policy ho magar aap ka nuqta-e-nazer buhat he ghalat hay…aap aisa karin chiritian ho jain….phr yeh sab batain sahi hongi jo aap nay kaha

  • Mrs. Mir, I feel sorry to see your comments. This is exactly what the writer was saying. Pakistanis are dirty people. You pointed out that go to the village where the writer lived. Unfortunately, I don’t have to go anywhere. Nor I don’t need to know anything about the writer. But you have exposed yourself by showing your ugly character. Allah help you. He is Sattar Ul Ayoob.

    • And hope Allah help u too and show u guidance to not follow people like this writer who were born n bred in pakistan and now talk against same country . She is doctor because of same country and same society has such tolerance who are bearing personalities like you and her . She is promoting sex before marriage n other illicit relations on her fb page . May Allah give us all guidance . I read her page unintentionally and now has decided to never read her blog again . Btw it’s not country which is dirty it’s mentality of people like u n hers who are sick who allow their daughters to have multiple partners .

    • N don’t bother to answer cz I don’t have time to read her articles ….u waste ur time on her .

  • And please be aware that after having sex with multiple partners, your daughter and you as well may get virus of AIDS.

  • Reply@Mrs.Mir, I am so pleased that you will not be reading this article nor the blog. I am happy that one dirty mind person is out of our scene. I live in Lahore and I thought people living abroad will have a balanced thoughts and tolerance. I am happy that in Pakistan, we live with limited tolerance. I urge the writer of this article, please keep writing. Good or bad, we must listen to all sides.

  • tum nay islam nahi parha tum nay islam ko samja nahi tumhari har baaat islam k khilaf hay,tumhara har jumla shariat ky khilaf hay,just itna soch leti k dunya main sab say behter deeeeen kn ka hay or konsa hay to aqal tikanay ajati,shayd tum nay quran nahi parha hadeesh tum nay nahi suni,shitaaan tumhara dost ban chala hay ,tere har jumlay kay mere pas 100,100 jawab hain mgr pta nahi tu parh paegi ya nahi isss lye allah tjay hadayat day yaa wapas mur kr mujsay munazra kr tujay teri haqeeqat or america ki tujay haqeeqat samja dunga ,tu bholi hay nadan hay na samaj hay ,3ra kalma tjay ata nahi hoga or wazu ka faraiz ka tujay pta nahi hoga or bol dala muslm k khilaf yaaad rakhan tum nay pakistan ki tuheen nahi musalman ki toheen ki hay,kisi samjadar amrican say hi sawal krna k hum digriyan seekhnay america aatay hay mrg america say islam seeekhnay log pakistan q jatay hain,zarooor krna sawal jawwab acha milay ga

  • We are very thankful to European countries & west countries who are accepting the dirt of pakistan, Actually peoples like your mind/thinking are dirt of pakistan. Thanks GOD Pakistan is cleaning.